Motherhood, as in speaking (or writing, that is) about my own mother and that of being a mother myself, is - for me - another word for Querencia, my Word of the Year. In the beginning, I only thought of motherhood in reference to being a daughter. And, of course, I sometimes dreamed of motherhood …
Tag: Forgiveness
New Year, New Beginning
Sometimes, when things go wrong, despite our best and well-meant intentions, all we can do is be grateful for new beginnings and to continue striving for kindness and growing stronger in love. Life happens and sometimes it can get messy. Recently, my unconditional love has been questioned as my tough love was not wanted, welcomed, …
Forgiveness & Gratitude
I believe wholeheartedly that forgiveness leads to gratitude and vice versa. When we are grateful, we are more apt to be forgiving. And when we forgive, we are grateful for so much than we could imagine ourselves capable of. There are so many correlations between forgiving and being grateful, and one can only reap the …
Forgiving Our Past
Moving Past Those Things Which Haunt Us It seems appropriate being so close to Halloween to blog about those things which have haunted our past and, more than likely, our dreams - wide awake or when asleep. You know, those things which either we did, or someone did to us, and we just can't seem …
Forgiveness: Learning to Let Go
As I re-read my first post of the year on forgiveness, I realized one of the ways I didn't cover to better develop a forgiving heart is that of letting go. We so often want to hang on to all those things that hurt us. Why? Perhaps, so that we can see when it's happening …
Aging & Forgiveness
As I sit here today with a few unexpected minutes to write this blog post, I'm drawn to share with you my thoughts about how forgiveness is a vital part of the aging process. It seems with each decade I'm reminded more and more about our immortality and mortality as humans. There isn't a day …
Forgiveness As a Lifestyle
When a person chooses not to forgive but to hold onto slights against another, they choose isolation, sadness, heartbreak, and even more. Whether feeling slighted and choosing to hold onto the hurt is of merit or not, withholding forgiveness simply seals us into being miserable forever. We may deny the effect of not forgiving others, …
Three Keys to Forgiving
Three things which have helped me forgive others, and also the past, are learning to let go, move on, and start fresh. From the time we are young, we are presented with moments where we have to choose to forgive or not to forgive. A sibling or classmate knocks our stack of blocks down. A …
Forgive Now Not Tomorrow
Forgiving today or when an injustice or misunderstanding occurs is not always as easy as it sounds. But the passage of time can be an enemy to resolving issues and establishing a better relationship with a loved one or colleague. Tomorrow doesn't guarantee that we will have the time or the courage to deal with …
Virginia Alice Crawford 